From Traditional to Contemporary: Exploring the Evolution of Funeral Flowers

Funeral flowers, though often associated with modern times, have a history that stretches back centuries. In fact, evidence of their use dates as far back as 62,000 BC. While they were originally employed to mask the smell of the deceased, over time, they evolved to symbolise love and respect. However, not all cultures incorporate flowers into their funeral rites. Followers of religions such as Judaism and Islam, for example, have different customs and do not traditionally use funeral flowers.

Today we use funeral flowers to help the grieving process, especially when we find it hard to express our thoughts and emotions - flowers can say so much. They can also be used to symbolise whether it be colour, flower type or design - from the white lily which many associate with death, the colour red portraying love, to the circle of eternal life of the never ending wreath.

The history of funeral flowers includes an interesting influence from the past. During the time of Queen Victoria, mourning her beloved Prince Albert, it became fashionable for people to dress entirely in black as a sign of grief. Funeral flowers, during that era, were opulent and extravagant, reflecting the status and wealth of the deceased's family. However, for those less fortunate, their options for floral arrangements were limited. Despite economic hardships, many families set aside money for funerals to ensure their loved ones did not receive a "pauper's funeral." Maybe this is why some people prefer to set up prepaid funeral plans today.

Over time, companies have produced premade bases such as letters and specific design shapes because of increased demands.  Whilst these have aided the florists and cut down on their time, little has been said about the long term effects of these products, such as plastic bases and floral foam.  Trends are changing, albeit slowly, where clients are more aware of the knock on effect of these items and so we are now almost full circle.  We can use alternatives to commercial bases, branches and moss, chicken wire, items that will decompose or can be recycled.

The evolution of funeral flowers highlights the importance of cultural traditions and the impact of changing values in society. From their ancient practical origins to their modern emotional significance, funeral flowers have served as a poignant way to pay respects and console those who are grieving. As we strive for a more sustainable and compassionate world, the transformation in the funeral flower industry is a testament to our collective effort to cherish our loved ones and the environment they leave behind.

Eco-Friendly Floral Design: Sustainable Practices for Ethical Funeral and Celebration Flowers

For those that know my work, know that I am passionate about creating eco-friendly floral designs. In this blog, I will shed light on the importance of using locally and British sourced flowers and foliage, avoiding floral foam, and making conscious choices for sustainable arrangements. By adopting these practices, it allows me to create beautiful funeral and celebration flower designs while minimising our environmental impact.

Locally and British Sourced Flowers and Foliage:

I prioritise using locally sourced flowers and foliage that are in season, as well as my own when possible. By supporting local growers and British flower farms, we reduce the carbon footprint associated with long-distance transportation. These locally sourced blooms not only showcase the beauty of our region but also ensure that the flowers are fresh and long-lasting.

Sustainable Practices in Floral Arrangements:

Sustainability in floral design goes beyond sourcing. It encompasses how the arrangements are made up. For example, taking into consideration the amount of air miles clocked up when flowers come from abroad.  


Floral Foam: An Environmental Concern:

Floral foam, often used as a foundation for arrangements, has a detrimental impact on the environment. It consists of thousands of microplastics and chemicals, including formaldehyde. When floral foam breaks up, these harmful substances enter the water course, polluting our waterways and seeping into the land.


Plastic Bases and Landfill:

Additionally, many floral designs incorporate plastic bases that end up in landfill unless they are reused. To combat this issue, I encourage the use of sustainable alternatives such as reusable containers, particularly those made of glass. For creating a sturdy base, I employ sustainably sourced moss, chicken wire, or sticks and branches, reducing our reliance on plastic materials.

Compostable and Eco-Friendly Options:

To exemplify eco-friendly floral design, I’ll often create arrangements that are fully compostable. By using biodegradable materials such as twigs, moss, and flowers, I can ensure that my designs return to the earth after their purpose is fulfilled. These compostable arrangements not only add a touch of natural beauty to any occasion but also contribute to a healthier environment.


Here’s a flower heart, made of twigs and seasonal blooms and fully compostable.  Simplicity can be stunning

Why Foam-Free Flower Arranging Matters:

You may wonder why it is so important to avoid foam in floral arranging or floristry. While foam may seem convenient and some variants claim to be biodegradable, it is essential to understand the underlying issues. When I attended college I don't remember being given an alternative or any information on the down side of its use, it was just sold to us as a brilliant product. So if you don't know why it's such an issue, this may enlighten you:


  • Microplastics and Formaldehyde: Floral foam contains thousands of microplastics and chemicals, which pose a threat to our ecosystems. 

  • Unsuitability for Composting: Floral foam cannot be added to your compost pile. Its composition inhibits proper decomposition and the release of nutrients back into the soil.

  • Biodegradability in Landfill: Even the foam labelled as "biodegradable" (with the exception of Agra wool) will only degrade under specific conditions.  Once in landfill, we have no control over these conditions, rendering the foam's biodegradability ineffective.

Conclusion:

By embracing eco-friendly floral design practices, we can honour the beauty of nature while promoting sustainability. Opting for locally and British sourced flowers, avoiding floral foam, and utilising compostable materials not only reduces our environmental impact but also supports ethical practices in the floral industry. 

Unique Floral Designs to Honour a Loved One's Passion and Hobbies

Losing a loved one is undoubtedly a difficult experience, but finding ways to honour their memory can bring some comfort.  Floral designs that reflect their passions and hobbies offer a unique tribute. Let's explore the process behind these distinctive floral designs and the importance of capturing someone's personality. 

As a florist, designing custom floral arrangements goes beyond arranging flowers. It involves careful planning, creativity, and communication with my client. The first step is understanding the departed loved one through conversations with my client. By learning about their personality, interests, and hobbies, a design that truly embodies their character can be conceptualised.

During these discussions, we explore specific hobbies or passions the loved one had. For example, they may have been an avid gardener or had a deep love for football. By considering these aspects, unique ideas that reflect their interests can be generated. This ensures active client participation, allowing the final creation to resonate with their loved one's memory.

To bring these ideas to life, I can create sketches as a visual aid of the proposed designs. These sketches serve as a reference point and aid in decision-making. Clients can picture the floral tribute and offer valuable feedback, refining the design. This collaborative process brings about innovative and unusual designs.

Designing a distinctive floral tribute involves creativity and sometimes thinking outside the box. Unconventional elements can incorporate the loved one's passions, such as miniature gardening tools or football accessories. These personalised touches make the floral tribute meaningful and evocative representations of their life.

Here are a few examples:

Picture one: A 'Dad' who's passion was gardening but also enjoyed a tipple too

Picture two: A fisherman who loved nature

Picture three: Carnations en masse, to symbolise a tennis ball, to represent a lady who loved tennis

While aesthetics are important, the mechanics of the design are equally crucial. Ensuring the arrangement is structurally sound prevents anything from moving or falling off. Attention to detail and expertise in floral mechanics guarantee the longevity of the tribute, allowing it to be appreciated after the service.


Creating a unique floral design to honour a loved one's passions and hobbies is a heartfelt and transformative experience. It provides an opportunity for family and friends to reminisce and share cherished memories. Insights gained from conversations spark new ideas, resulting in even more personalised and meaningful floral tributes.

Flowers have a profound way of communicating emotions and memories when words fall short. Custom floral designs, crafted with care, become an expression of love and remembrance. By capturing a loved one's passions and hobbies, these unique tributes become lasting symbols of their extraordinary life and the impact they had on others.


In times of grief, the artistry of floristry offers healing and comfort. Each bespoke floral arrangement celebrates a loved one's spirit, creating heartfelt and memorable gestures of remembrance.

If you’re looking to pay your final respects to someone special in your life, but need some assistance in choosing funeral flowers, you can read my blog here. Alternatively, get in touch with me directly here.

Flowers for a summer scent

My favourite flowers for colour and scent are:


Freesia- these come in a range of pretty colours, white, yellow, lilac, red and orange - these are highly scented, and would make a special gift for anyone who has limited eyesight.


Peony - a blowsy bloom in shades of pink, red, white and creamy yellow. A beautiful scent and if you grow them in your garden you will see they are adored by ants - they produce a sticky sap, which they just love 🐜


Lavender - in a range of lilacs and mauves and now also white and pinky mauve shades. Can be used fresh or dried in arrangements. The scent brings back childhood memories ❤️


Tulips - are known for their glamorous spring flowers,  some even offer a beautiful scent. The Tulipa 'Ballerina' and the ‘Angelique tulip are a much-loved favourite, according to research from Garderners World 


Flower fact: did you know that tulips continue to grow in water after they are cut, up to an inch or more. They also bend their heads towards the light ☀️


The trick to long-lasting tulips is to buy ones very “tight” or unopened, with buds still green and just showing some colour.


Did you also know that a yellow tulip is the colour of friendship, something helpful to know when buying a good friend a bouquet of flowers ;-)


My Top 5 Pick of Flowers for Spring (and what to avoid for allergies):

My 5 Top Picks of Flowers for Spring

Daffodil - simply stunning. Synonymous with St David's Day, these blooms are a pop of joy at the time of year when we need something to sing about.


Ranunculus - such a pretty and delicate little flower in a kaleidoscope of colours. They look as though they are made of fine paper! Did you know these are members of the buttercup family?


Anemone - I love the richness of these little beauties, almost velvety in appearance. Like the Tulip, these continue to grow in water and will curve towards light


Hyacinth - Great mixed in with other Spring flowers (avoiding daffodils - that's another blog!) or stunning en masse  . They have a powerful scent and come in a range of stunning colours, white, blue, mauve, pink and apricot. Like the tulip they continue to grow when in water and with a heavy head they are best supported by an appropriately shaped vase or with other flowers and foliage.


Tulips - Originating from central Asia, then a treasured flower in Persia and Turkey and in turn cultivated in Holland, the Dutch are now the largest grower of the Tulip. In the language of flowers, tulips represent 'perfect love' but like many other blooms the colours can also have a symbolic meaning

Flowers to avoid if you suffer from migraines or allergies

As wonderful as Spring and Summer are, they can bring out a lot of allergies for some. If you suffer from allergies then you may be affected by flowers high in pollen - these include chrysanthemum, daisies, dahlia and aster amongst others. Lilies can be a problem too, as can freesia, lilac, roses and hyacinth, not because of the pollen but because of their strong scent.

I have a friend that loved lilies but put her migraines down to having them in the house.

One person's pleasure can be another's poison, so it's worth remembering when you buy your loved one flowers - you don't want them suffering with streaming eyes or an itchy nose!

3 Beautiful Indoor Winter Plants to Brighten Your Home

Poinsettia -

It’s no surprise that Poinsettias are a festive favourite for most.

Like cut flowers indoor plants can be rather fussy - they don't like draughts, too much direct sunlight, nor do they like to be over or under watered! Poinsettias can last for weeks - give them some TLC and they can last through the winter.

This colourful flower is particularly popular for those wanting to sprinkle some festivity and Christmas joy in their homes. It also makes the perfect Christmas table decoration.

Hyacinth -

These make us think of the promise of Spring, lighter days and hopefully more settled weather! This is really a Spring flower but at Christmas these bulbs can be 'forced' by using prepared bulbs either in water or in planters. They will die off once flowered but I would always advise you not to throw these away but to plant in your garden afterwards.

Mixed Foliage -

It's all about the scent! When flowers are scarce or have to be imported I would suggest thinking 'outside the box' with foliages - Spruce, Eucalyptus, Bay and Rosemary. My favourite - what's not to like about these Christmassy scents. My whole car smelt of spruce for days after having bundles in the boot. Bootiful!! 

Flower Fact (that you might not know)

In days gone by we would have only used flowers and foliage that were available in the winter rather than imported. And any crops that were left over and suitable would have been dried, much like pickling vegetables and making excess fruit into jam.

Did you know that over 80% of flowers are now imported into this country? It's worth thinking about where your flowers come from. Of course, there’ll be times that roses will only fit the bill but to keep it eco-friendly why not consider alternatives like dried flowers?

Not only are they long-lasting, they are low maintenance and offer good value for money. And, they make  perfect eco-friendly decor for your home. Take a look at my work in the pictures below to give some inspiration to show you what you can do with dried flowers.

Like these tips and would love to know more? Follow me on my Facebook page where I regularly post flower tips in accordance with each season, as well as funeral flower guidance.

Poinsettia -

Hyacinth -

Mixed Foliage -

Dried flower arrangement -

Funeral Flowers - Frequently Asked Questions

There are many practical things to deal with when you lose a friend or loved one and when you’re emotional it becomes even more daunting. So you might find it helpful to know the type of questions asked when ordering your flowers and why they are asked.

The full name of the Deceased 

These details are added to the back of the message card so the arrangement arrives at the Funeral Directors, ensuring it does not get muddled with another funeral

The full name and address of the Funeral Director 

This is where the arrangement will be delivered. In the past, best practice was for the flowers to be delivered to home addresses and whilst this occasionally happens, it is preferable that the arrangements are taken directly to the funeral parlour, so that they can all arrive together with the coffin to the venue

The time and the place where the funeral will take place 

This will allow time for the arrangements to arrive fresh and in good time for the Funeral Director to arrange the flowers in the hearse

The type of floral design required 

There are many and varied designs available for example, coffin sprays, wreaths, posy and bespoke arrangements

Sometimes the flowers for a funeral just need to be beautifully simple. A little bouquet perfect as a farewell from a child (see attached photo for inspiration)

Whilst this covers the main questions, in addition, I would also ask about the person's likes and hobbies, favourite colours and flowers, which gives a more rounded picture of them and assists me in personalising my designs. It's important to remember that these are farewell flowers which are as unique as the person and who's life they are intended to celebrate.

If you’re looking to pay your final respects to someone special in your life, but need some assistance in choosing funeral flowers, you can read my blog here. Alternatively, get in touch with me directly here.

How Much Do Funeral Flowers Cost

This is quite a difficult question because it depends on the type of arrangement you choose, the size and the choice of flowers included. 

Some people do not appreciate the amount of work involved in these arrangements, so wonder why they are expensive.

But if you consider conversations/meetings with clients, planning, ordering, collection, conditioning of flowers and foliage and sundries, without even spending time physically putting the design together, it gives you an idea of what is involved.

So back to the original question. Small arrangements, such as posies can start around £35 and coffin sprays upwards of £150. Click here for more guidance on funeral flowers and my price guidelines. If there's something you have in mind for a special loved one, you can contact me here and I'll be happy to discuss your requirements.

Choosing your funeral flowers

I'm often asked what the most popular flowers are for funerals and in the past I would have said lilies and roses.  Whilst these are still popular, trends are changing…

Some people really have an aversion to lilies, because of their scent but also for the very reason they are associated with funerals. In my experience the styles of arrangements are changing too, so families do not always want structured but prefer a more natural look to their farewell flowers. Click here to read more in my blog on A Guide To Choosing Your Funeral Flowers

Sharing a couple of funeral flowers to take a look for inspiration

If that's something that you would like to consider, contact me at www.flourishingflowers.co.uk. Alternatively, follow me on my Facebook page HERE for more funeral flower tips and inspiration.